How to Heal the Sting of Betrayal with Truth

by Sandra Allen Lovelace  @SandraALovelace  #FreedomWalker  #TimetobeYOU We’ve probably all experienced betrayal. Some episodes are more painful and trying than others.  Usually. the deeper the love and trust in the relationship, the more severe the shock, the more intense the pull toward vengeance, and the more powerful the fear we’ll never feel whole again. It… Continue reading How to Heal the Sting of Betrayal with Truth

What Wins the Victory in the War for Peace, Feelings or Facts?

by Sandra Allen Lovelace  @SandraALovelace  #WallflowerWomen  #TimetobeYOU! The weight loss is real and a shock. There’s no explanation. My mind scurries in countless directions, searching for answers. Without a reasonable explanation, my imagination spins ever-wilder possibilities. When the scale hits a number not seen since high school, near panic strikes and my breath is short.… Continue reading What Wins the Victory in the War for Peace, Feelings or Facts?

My Own Worst Enemy

It’s great to be back.  The server switch is complete, but No Images for now. Another detail to adjust I guess.  *Sigh  Hang in there with me. I didn’t understand what my fourth grade teacher meant in the report card comment. “Sandy (for I was known as such when I was younger) is her own worst enemy.”

Overwhelmed but not Undone

Life is busy and my days feel too short.  On top of my regular list of responsibilities I’m trying to sell this house. And there are the increasing threats to my safety that send my thoughts reeling. When my stomach ache hit on Monday I couldn’t remember the last time I was sick. I sort of held… Continue reading Overwhelmed but not Undone